s:So I know this is a somewhat personal question, but the real mystery here is that we are a really small town – everyone knows everyone!
Me and my boyfriend – let’s call him Mark, we’ve been friends for nearly seven years now, and we were in our early twenties. Recently, due to some misunderstanding, he told me it’s DTF but it has no strings attached! I later explained to him that this wasn’t what I was talking about, but he made me think about it later.
To be fair, Mark is insanely hot. I’m not attracted to him in the way he “makes your heart stop when he walks into the room” way, but I do think the sex would be steamy.
I’ve only been in one relationship in my life, and it took a really short time! (Less than a week) After that, the series was without strings. So, needless to say, I’m pretty shaky in making these decisions! His friendship means a lot to me, and one fine day, when we’re older and about to get married, I don’t want his wife to be “OH HELLS NO, YOU CAN’T CALL FLASH!”
We have the same circle of friends, and if we start with the whole FWB routine, we’ll keep it a tightly wrapped secret, but it’s not something you can hide from your significant other, especially since we’re so close and we’ve been friends for so long.
Because of COVID, I haven’t had a chance to go out and meet a lot of new people, so maybe I’m just looking for a release I guess? He’s a really cool guy and I know he’s going to last until his end of the arrangement as I will, I’m really worried about the repercussions.
Should I just keep it in my pants? Or go for it, quoting some YOLO stuff? I don’t feel emotionally drawn to him, so I might not go all the way. But even kissing can be subject to a lot of criticism and I don’t want to be bitten by that later!
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